Sometimes It's Hard - Paperback

by Kayla Paquette (Author)

Growing up with a brother on the autism spectrum can be full of big emotions, questions, surprises, and love. This honest story is about a big sister who learns about what autism is and how to celebrate her brother's differences, while using coping strategies to manage her own big feelings. Great for kids ages 5-12, this beautifully illustrated picture book gently explores the world of autism from a sibling's perspective - helping families understand, empathize, and embrace neurodiversity together.

Readers will find:

• Reflection prompts for kids and parents
• Conversation starters for kids and parents
• Discussion topics for teachers or families

Perfect for home, school, or therapy settings, this book is a gentle guide for children learning to understand a sibling with autism and for the adults supporting them. Whether you're a parent, teacher, counselor, or sibling, this story offers a safe and thoughtful way to begin important conversations about acceptance, self-regulation, and love between brothers and sisters.

"It's hard to explain and understand what it is like to have a sibling with autism. This book is the answer to many difficulties a sibling faces and the internal and external struggles they feel. I wish I could have read this book growing up, and would recommend this book to any child/family." Juliana S., Sibling to Someone With Autism

"The bond between a child with ASD and their non-neurodivergent siblings is both beautiful and complex. By shining a light on the neurotypical side of this relationship, "Sometimes It's Hard" acknowledges those complexities, and provides families with the words and tools to help navigate them." - Hillary P., Special Needs Parent

"This story encourages the "difficult" conversations within families and is a great resource. This warm, informative, and inclusive book is highly recommended for any family seeking to build understanding, kindness, and acceptance." - Katie P., Special Education Teacher