{"product_id":"he-said-she-said-and-all-the-bullshit-in-between-an-immigrants-perspective-on-love-and-romance-in-america-hardcover","title":"He Said, She Said, And All The Bullshit In Between: An immigrant's perspective on Love and Romance in America - Hardcover","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eKofi Andoh\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eModern love is a mess. Here's the bullshit-free version.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe crossed an ocean and landed in Southern California-only to find that American dating felt less like romance and more like a covert operation.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn He Said, She Said, and All the Bullshit In-between, African immigrant Kofi Andoh takes a sharp, funny, and brutally honest look at love and dating in America, colliding his upbringing's idea of connection with a culture of hyper-individualism and curated loneliness.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHe dives into: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\"School dance syndrome\" and why we're all waiting for someone else to make the first move\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHyper-individualism, pet-obsessed loneliness, and the fear of real intimacy\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDating apps, mind games, and the performance of \"fake feminism\"\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe quiet lies we tell ourselves to survive modern romance\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough cultural critique, personal stories, and uncomfortable truths that still make you laugh, Andoh exposes the scripts we follow without question.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBlunt, insightful, and refreshingly bullshit-free, this isn't a dating manual and it isn't a bitter rant. It's an invitation to rethink what you've been taught about love and start building relationships rooted in clarity, courage, and compassion.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFor lovers, skeptics, the heartbroken, and the hopeful, this book will change how you see romance-and maybe, finally, how you see each other.\u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 158\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.44 x 8 x 5 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e February 14, 2026\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eLarge Print:\u003c\/strong\u003e Yes\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47578881360093,"sku":"9798295563256","price":29.35,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0811\/9867\/8237\/files\/UX9YVQVujs9798295563256.webp?v=1773513400","url":"https:\/\/handfulofbooks.com\/products\/he-said-she-said-and-all-the-bullshit-in-between-an-immigrants-perspective-on-love-and-romance-in-america-hardcover","provider":"Handful of Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}